Ok, @mestela that "Copy Defaults From Node" definitely did help with saving my changes. I just don't understand why nobody has yet covered this in so many videos and pages I read. I literally just learned this from you and I am very grateful. Houdini has some of this important functions very enigmatically labeled and sometimes in a very unlikely places

@antc I have managed to Duplicate the node in Asset Manager and change it's name and then I deleted the original. This time I named it Tentacle Master so that worked and it loads as Tentacle_Master1. I guess number 1 is Houdini's way of labeling nodes as every node has "1" after I load a very first instance of it.
I attached last version I added missing "Save to disk" function and changed a color of the initial tentacle to test saving option and it worked. Also "Grip" is finally OFF by default

Thank you so much guys. Let me know if this is how HDA is suppose to be or if it even works in your Houdini. At this point I don't know if it works anywhere outside of my Houdini hahah

This is my first HDA so I am trying to figure my life out haha.
Also I tried to upload this on Orbolt and I was informed that there is some "dependency issue" because I used LABS SPIRAL node in my HDA. I don't know what dependencies are so do you guys know anything about that?