I've wasted weeks and weeks testing this and once I thought I've got it.. I see that Nuke and AfterFX are showing one thing and DaVinci completely different one...
Is there proper DaVinci resolve and Houdini with ACES workflow that just.. works?
First Houdini settings, OCIO settings and if there are any special things in Karma render settings to follow as well, and then DaVinci Resolve project color management settings how to properly load those rendered sequences from Houdini, to have proper ACES workflow and identical look across all fields, Houdini Display, DaVinci, Nuke and AfterFX all showing same thing.
Please! Loosing sanity here

Here is what I have setup at the moment: