Some how, all my nodes in scene context have diagonal light/dark grey lines over the node and when I go to move my node it seems like im moving the pre-transform (the object dosent move until I select reset Pre-Transforms)
Is there a way to stop this??
Newly created nodes are fine.

can you post a hip file? I don't think I've ever seen this kind of behavior.

here is the file.
I have tried it on different computers and different builds (up to 12.0.683)

your object is being Bypassed (I din't know this is possible )
just select the node and press Shift+B, it should turn to normal again and work correctly

Thanks tamte,
I ended up realising this too! Must have accidentally shif-B them at some point.
Is this a bug that you can do this?
I guess it makes sense that you can bypass the container nodes transforms, but there are no other UI references to being able to do this